The Victim Mentality
My adverse circumstances are not my fault.
When people believe that everything
is happening to them and, as
a result, they are not responsible for the outcome, they are living with the
Of course bad things
happen to people (and companies) that may be beyond their control. But being a
victim doesn’t mean you have a victim mentality. The question is: What
do you do next?
Individuals can blame
their companies for their problems. Companies may point to their staff or outside market forces as the
reasons they can’t achieve their goals.
In the end, no matter how
legitimate the reason for our current state, nothing will change if we don’t
stop making excuses and take responsibility to fix the problem.
The Lottery Mentality
I will derive substantial benefit for little or no effort
We sometimes expect
people in our organizations to change culture, process, tools, job responsibilities,
locations, and even industries while we make little or no investment in
training, communication, resources, or troubleshooting.
It’s not uncommon for companies
to look for low cost quick wins.
They want to WOW investors
today even if it means disappointing them tomorrow.
They’re looking to win the
What’s the antidote for
these two perspectives?
Reflection, hard work, and
personal accountability on all sides!