All I needed to know about
people, I learned when I was a waitress.
When someone comes in, say
hello. Do it quickly – even if you can’t
get them what they want right way.
They need to know that YOU
know they’re there. They need to know
that you care enough to say something.
If someone shows up a lot,
let them know you’ve noticed.
Try to remember something
about them. If your memory isn’t the
best – cheat!
Try a memory trick (like
an association) or just keep some notes.
If someone asks you for
something you don’t have, tell the truth.
Don’t waste their time and
don’t insult their intelligence.
Do what
you can to meet their needs, but admit when you can’t meet them exactly.
Where possible, offer them
alternatives.
At all times treat people
(even difficult people) with respect.
Keep an open mind and try
to understand their perspective.
Difficult people are often
the ones that teach you the most.
Treasure them!
Monnie –
I don’t think we ever fully get it. People know when you’re trying, though. And trying almost always pays off in the end.
Good Luck.
Ann
I definitely agree with you..I have been server for almost 4 years now..Sometimes,It has been so difficult though because some people,they do not appreciate our respect and service.. They were no manner and polite..On top of that, BAD tip at the end..I was about to cry..I have to support all my family back home and they are counting on me..This job is giving me a lot how to learn about people but I’m still learning and don’t know how to deal with them still..
Yes, Levi, they do – it’s amazing how they translate into more “formal” business situations too. Like when you get an email or a comment 🙂 – try to acknowledge that as quickly as possible!
Thanks for stopping by!
Ann
Arent those jobs the best for learning patience. Its hard somtimes to keep up with remembering all those faces and what they want.
Its been 4 years since I worked at a coffee shop but I still sometimes see people who used to come in and remember what they ordered every morning.
But those lessons last a lifetime.